many tots at a time

i guess i have too many thoughts to post today..juz bear w me..

i have been having 2 wks of short breaks from sch and ltr im gg bk to sch..
hope i wil buck up and not gif up easily.. esp nw when im preg..

Baby bonus
oh personally i tink the new version of bb incentives this year is catered more for full time working moms / moms to be..
childcare leave increased from 2 to 6 days a year.
3 mths maternity leave increased to 4 mths.
so does it mean better for employees n employers?
well is hard to say.. for pro family companies, is good..
but for those not so pro family companies, im afraid pregnant employees might have a hard time wrking in the co. when they announced being preg..
1 week of unpaid infant care leave..
more incentives will be updated later on by mr wks..
hope stay at hme moms will also benefits from it.

My pregnancy
hmm, i tink i nw shd be at my week 11..
next week wil be gg for a check up .. blood test.. oscar test as well but is optional.
havent discuss w hb if we are gg to have the oscar test for down syndrome..
there are pros n cons abt doing the test..
wad if the bb is detected w DS? to keep or not to keep it?
im still young and doesnt have family history abt DS so shd i do it?
well c how la.. shall wait for the discussion w hb dan hopefully can come up w a final decision.

currently im still having morning sickness and gets tired out easily again..
hope tt as times goes by i will slowly recover from all these symptons.
not sure am i putting on weight.. hahas. cross fingers. will noe it next wk when i go e clinic coz i will be tking my weight again.

Friends
kinda of sick of tis at times. when those u are concern abt dont reciporate.
Eg A.
have been trying to arrg a meet up w this fren but nvr realii get to meet her up.
mayb im sensitive but i juz feel that she just isnt keen on meeting us.
jus a point to note. im not sensitive bcoz im preg. but coz this have been ard b4 im preg. juz tt nw getting more sian of this fren. donno wad she wants. i feel tt she is running away from us. but for wad reason oni she will noes better dan us. we realli tried our best. i guess is time we juz leave her alone. maybe she is better w/o us. i guess she prefers her new life, her new frens and her new circle.
Eg B.
this fren of mine have been in some kind of problem as well. i noe i havent been standing along w her most of the time. but whenever i tink of her i will try get updates from her. but nw she is MIA again.. donno for hw many times. all i want to noe is how she is doing. she may tink im oni getting some benefits. but im not lar. so many years of frenship. i guess she still don understands me. or perhaps she nvr tries to understand me. even a simple sms reply she oso don bother to reply. sometimes i really wonder wad's in her brain.. sigh. im also a human myself. there is also a limit to my tolerance level. moreover it has been so many years. im guess im juz tired. perhaps is also time to gif up my hopes.

for the past few weeks, i met up w alex n the rest. we went prawning. is realli happy to c them. it has been so long since i went out with them tgt. haha. hope our frenship will be strong.

met up w esther tpk. haha. tho we met up oni for short while but i realli enjoys her company. we always have so much things to tok abt. and we yummlicious subway sandwich. don worry i didnt eat the cold meat. it was heated up. i noe is salty and i shdnt eat too much.

i also went to yiling 21st bd chalet. realli enjoyed the food she have there. hahas.
had a lotsa of fun playin with nicole/enen and hanging ard with cat, her hb ah bui, hui xian and joey.. but oni thing sian is i left quite earli.. paiseh hb wan hurry hme watch tv +_+..

lastly aft chalet. i met up w my bestie cmt for a long chat at my hse nearby prata shop.. haha.. i love her to bits. i miss her so much. sigh wonder when will we meet again.. im so sorry ar cmt.. last sat n sun i couldnt meet u for lunch. hahas. but next time juz come my hse la. lols.

last fri - sun
i was stayin at my mom place.. i simply love tamp my mom hse. kopitiams juz so near to me.. not like wdls. sigh. realli v happi to c my sis kids .. all so cute. hahas.
as for my mom. haha she is crazying in love with MJ.. left with me, her n dad she oso wan play MJ and cheat my money. LOL buay tahan her la. 3 pple mj is juz abit not as fun as 4 pple mj. lol
my dad v ke ai i tell u.. last sat he received 3 letters to redeem his presents which he used his miles points to redeem.. he so excited over it tt he chiong ride bicycle to century square best denki and bring home one rice cooker, one cordless phone and one electric 16' fan lor. +_+ why i have such a cute dad. haha..

alrite muz slp earli liao. ltr muz wk up earli n do my assignments...hehe
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