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I have been a crazy clubber all along since young. until i realli got settled dwn with him, i cut dwn my clubbing sessions with my frenz bcoz of him till the xtend tt i hardly go to clubb and i some how go MIA.
but recently when we announced to get marry, i started to frequent clubs once again. not fully bcoz i wan to club, but i tk it as an opportunity to hang out with my long-lost best friends.
he seems to get irritated by my actions. He was saying tt im too much by coming home late and gg out with friends for too many times, leaving him alone at my hse etc.
I would be very happy to have him gg to club with me but the problem is he dun club at all. Im with him for almost 3 years but he have oni accompanied me to club less than 6times.
And even i stay at hme after wrk or sch i will be left alone to watch my television programmes alone and he will be facing the computer playing his maple 3/4 of his time while he's at home. i feel tt im so redundant by accomapany him at my own house. his oni needed companion is always the PC n not me.
Are we not suitable?
Can anione tell me how to communicate with him regarding this problem?
I believe tt even im married to him later on, i will still wan to club occasionally.
Am i very bad? does it mean once im married to him i cant go club? I cant make him to go club with me, but does tt mean i cant go club as well?
Pls help me.. give me some advice...
Some of my Friends told me tt they dont see ani future in me getting marry to my bf as he is always disapproving of me gg to club. They feel tt sooner or later we will ended up in filing up for divorce which i don wan..
to me getting marry is a very HOLY thing.
whenever he sets a time for me to go hme and i dont act accordingly to his timing he will niao(scold) me angrily. but my problem is tt since i was in my teens my parents dun give me ani timeline to get hme. My parents dun even restricts me on doing anithing. im a freedom kid. Now when he wants to control me, i don even feel like being controlled. Coz i noe wad im doin. even i go club i will never flirt ard, will never gif ani strangers my contacts. Not gd enuff meh?
haiz... we vr alreadi paid part of the bridal shop package and 2k on the wedding banquet. I dun wish to cancel off our wedding juz bcoz of this. Coz i realli love him. But i oso love the accompany of my friends.
Wad should i do ?????
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